The choices we make is what determines are eternal destiny. Presently in society it is "norrmal" and glorified to turn away from God. If we follow Self we are going against God.
“There are only two kinds of people in the end: those who say to God, "Thy will be done," and those to whom God says, in the end, "Thy will be done." All that are in Hell, choose it. Without that self-choice there could be no Hell. No soul that seriously and constantly desires joy will ever miss it. Those who seek find. Those who knock it is opened.”
― C.S. Lewis, The Great Divorce
Either you choose God or you don't. Jesus says he wishes we were all cold or not. If we are lukewarm fence sitters he will vomit us up.
All have sinned. Hell is our destination apart from Jesus Christ.
"11 “Later the others also came. ‘Lord, Lord,’ they said, ‘open the door for us!’
12 “But he replied, ‘Truly I tell you, I don’t know you.’" Matthew 25:11-12
43 If your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go into hell, where the fire never goes out." Mark 9:43
"Woe to you when everyone speaks well of you,
for that is how their ancestors treated the false prophets." Luke 6:26
If it's contrary to the Bible, it isn't reality; it isn't true.
So many are determined to live by their own rules. The woke ones of our society want to find loopholes.
"12 And I saw the dead, great and small, standing before the throne, and books were opened. Another book was opened, which is the book of life. The dead were judged according to what they had done as recorded in the books." Revelation 20:12
"15 Anyone whose name was not found written in the book of life was thrown into the lake of fire."
There will be many who say they know Jesus and they never knew Him. If they haven't turned to Him and repented they won't be in heaven.
"Seek the Lord while he may be found;
call on him while he is near.
7 Let the wicked forsake their ways
and the unrighteous their thoughts.
Let them turn to the Lord, and he will have mercy on them,
and to our God, for he will freely pardon." Isaiah 55:6-7
Today is the day to find God. Today is the day to seek the Lord. Tomorrow may never come. God can't force you to follow Him. He has given us free will to choose Him freely.
"The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace." Romans 8:6
"13 “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. 14 But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it." Matthew 7:13-14
If you go with the flow of the world you are going toward hell. The world is going to hell.
Be new, not original.
"8 But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. 9 Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices 10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator." Colossians 3:8-10
Repentance is daily. Daily you choose to die to self. Take up our crosses daily.
"15 But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”" Joshua 24:15
It is Your Choice. Every choices has consequences.